Stainless appliances are something you are either going to love, or hate... I didnt see much of a middle ground... In our old house, we had a SS fridge... kids were younger... the drips marks from the ice/water was never ending... couldnt just grab the sponge, as it would streak... I HATED IT...
Now the kids are older but did cabinet panels on both the fridge and freezer (seperate units).. same for the DW... got the cabinet panel... Stove on the other hand is 60" SS... it doesnt have the mirror finish, which is better for keeping fingerprints at bay... I only get the SS cleaner out about once a year... the hood/vent cover on the other hand, wish I had done cabinet surround but a 60" cabinet would not have looked right there, so bit the bullet and paid for the SS...
I agree that the OLD appliances lived an easy 20-30 yrs, and they sure dont make them like they used to. I've had the front load washer/dryers for 8 yrs now... on my 2nd set, which is 5 yrs old (the first set didnt fail, they were damaged unrelated to use)... With the first set, the washer's computer failed after about a yr, and it only took Sears a few days to get a repair man out and fix it... covered under warranty... No problems with the 2nd set, although I did have to call in for a repair on the dryer, and again, only a few days for a tech to come out... nothing wrong with the dryer... kid left one of those plastic cards that belongs on a keychain in their pocket, and it was stuck in the vent... no charge, and while the tech was here, checked both machines, as I didnt realize the warranty included an annual service check up... Both times I bought the front load machines, I did buy the same machines, just the newer set was 3 yrs newer. No regrets with them at all (GE Elites). My electric and water bills DID go down sustancially BTW...