My up bringing was strict, after I turned 18 I left the church and never looked back really. I too did not want that for my kids, SO as you can emagine THEY ARE OUT OF CONTROL! Lol. No they aren't, I'm joking, but it did change the way I see life and choices, I want my kids to make their own choices ( within reason lol, and some good moral poking along the way ) and learn from them, good or bad. I was taught, and made choices, by fear and of going to Hell if I didn't make the correct one ( according to their guidelines ). I didn't want that for my children. Hopefully I'm doing it right, but all you can do is instill a moral back ground and hope you've done right by them. No regretes for the things I learned as a child, it's made me who I am today.