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Darn sissy that sounds awful and to have it happen on what should be a very happy occasion, the birth of your first baby, makes it so much more horrible! Hope it wasn't a bad heart attack that did damage to your heart too much. You had to recuperate from both. Must have been hard.
 

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my doctor knew I had an enlarged heart and a heart murmur so he was ready for anything .He was even amazed at how fast I got better and went home 9 days later with a healthy happy baby boy . I knew the chances and with my second son ,not one problem .So can't complain .With my second son went in labor and not even an hour later he was born .Made it to the hospital and doctor got there and done .He said well that was easier ,whew and he was happy and i was relieved .
 

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Just glad it all worked out good and you didn't suffer any ill effects and now you are normal............................er, well not going to go that far,lol!
 

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nope never gonna go that far either ,I don't want to be normal no fun there ,plus you can get away with a lot more that way
 

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none of us are normal! there is no good definition for that word! My normal is not your normal, which is not jw's normal ..............lol
 

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and JW far from normal after her peeping stint just now .We all need to check outside our windows .
 

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Wow, the heath care down there sucks too! When Poppy got attacked by the Coyotes last year and got her "butt chewed off" she got taken care of real fast, like right now, but when it was me in the hospital waiting for care, dying of a spider bite, had streptococcal blood poisining, it was a "gong show" could have died waiting!!!

Good to hear everyone's OK now!
I only had the four legged kids, stock brought Poppy and Bear and put them under the bed..... cause that's were puppies come from!!!
 
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Funny, Colleen!!
Sissy, I can't even imagine having a heart attack before, during or after having a baby! OMG, what a mess that was, and you have your baby in the elevator? How crazy is that? You're in a hospital, and you had a baby in the elevator ... something is definitely wrong with that picture. I guess they were so confused who was going to help you out first, heart doctor or baby doctor! Very glad all went well!
As far as my issue with C, first of all I have a high tolerance of pain, and second, I HATE to vomit! So, I went through 3 surgeries no problem (lumpectomy, put IV port in and took port out) and the chemo was the challenge. I had no idea what to expect, but figured I had too many things going on in my life to get sick. So, I kept busy! My daughter and I were milking I think 8 dairy show goats at that time, plus we had probably 10 "kids" we were raising. On my 4th treatment, I got sick once in the night 2 days later, probably from the flu. The 5th treatment was on a Wed., and Fri. we loaded up 15 goats to go to the National Dairy Goat Show in Des Moines, Iowa for 7 days! My theory was keep busy, no time to be sick. It worked for me, but I know mind over matter doesn't work for everyone. Was feeling really poorly one morning, supposed to go horseback riding with neighbors, called and told them couldn't go, didn't want to puke in front of everyone. Longer I laid on the couch, worse I felt, so got up, saddled my horse, and went riding, and never got sick! Here are some GOOD things about chemo: No mosquito bites for 2 summers! I have allergies to some animals, grasses, etc. Had no allergies while on chemo, and for the next year. I was able to do my chemo and radiation at the Cancer Center in Effingham the same town where I work. They had me come in for radiation before work, and I never had to miss any work for that. I took off just 2 hours in the afternoons for the chemo. Total, including the 3 surgeries and 6 chemo treatments, I only missed a total of about 7 days work! I went to all my chemo sessions alone, as my ex husband was really busy at work .... guess that was more important! I did say "ex" .... :) Surgeries were on Thurs or Fridays, and chemo was in late afternoons, always back to work the next day. It helped me to be busy, as I said, so didn't take any extra time off work. One day I may get sick and need all those sick days I've accumulated, but I didn't need them for that!
I'm one of the positive people when it comes to cancer and treatments. I never quit smiling, and never lost hope. It seemed like it was a fairy tale that I even really had cancer! After all, surely I would not be the first in the family, but I guess someone has to be the first. Good news is that I'm not a carrier of any heriditary type of cancer, so my daughter has no more chance of having breast cancer than any other woman.
 

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You are a very strong, courageous woman CE and I applaud you for how you handled yourself through all that you had to endure. I don't think I would have handled it as well as you did. And you were happy w/ a good attitude too. I guess that really helped you to stay strong.
I'm glad to hear it didn't turn out to be hereditary and that should really ease your mind and your daughters also. Wishing you to stay cancer free forever!
 

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The hospital I had my children was JFK Hospital and was a top hospital for heart care at the time and is one big place so I felt i was in good hands I think I was lucky they knew what to expect and were prepared for everything ahead of time .I can't imagine going what you went through ce and anyone that goes through it knows how strong you are .Hmmm think I will check under my bed more often if puppies come from there .I have a friend Monique that just went through it last year and she went to the cancer center of america and love the care and support she got there and she seems to think that was what kept her strong .I guess caring people help a lot and family support is very important also .
 

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Glad to hear you beat the cancer! So many of our friends being diagnosed with it these days, Just keep our fingers crossed, I guess. Just one question: How in the HELL can anyone call himself a man, and leave his wife to fight something like that on her own??? I wouldn't be able to look at myself in the mirror ever again! Glad you lost the heel!!!
John
 

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Well said John! CE is so great to hear a positive attitude when it comes to cancer. Very inspirational.
 

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