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Haha! I thought you meant FOUR DAYS TO WORK ON YOUR FACE! Oh my. But it sounds pretty drastic as it is - you're a trooper.

How's hubby handling the construction? I don't think I've mentioned this on an open thread - my 61 year old brother died last month with Alzheimers. I know any kind of disruption to his day or surroundings was extremely upsetting/disorienting for him.
 

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Haha! I thought you meant FOUR DAYS TO WORK ON YOUR FACE! Oh my. But it sounds pretty drastic as it is - you're a trooper.

How's hubby handling the construction? I don't think I've mentioned this on an open thread - my 61 year old brother died last month with Alzheimers. I know any kind of disruption to his day or surroundings was extremely upsetting/disorienting for him.
Sorry to hear of your brother. That is a terrible slow way to go. I sure pray they could find a cure for it.
 

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Haha! I thought you meant FOUR DAYS TO WORK ON YOUR FACE! Oh my. But it sounds pretty drastic as it is - you're a trooper.

How's hubby handling the construction? I don't think I've mentioned this on an open thread - my 61 year old brother died last month with Alzheimers. I know any kind of disruption to his day or surroundings was extremely upsetting/disorienting for him.
Oops does look like that. Just 75 minutes or so for cheek/eye

They had to remove our door frame to get it in. So getting a wider door. Build a pony wall, new plumbing, etc etc.

So sorry about your brother. It is a so sad to deal with, the slow mental destruction. It seems the earlier you get it the worse it is. The long goodbye.

Mark is moderate, on slow down meds. I saw minor mental issues in 2018, he was diagnosed in 2022.

He spent the day in bed, yelling about the pups barking, well 6 strangers trooping in and out of the house. They were protecting me.

He does not handle changes, going places etc. talks about going but then sits in the car. Went to Costco with me, just to get my pups meds, he was exhausted.
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And surgery #4 on cheek Thursday. Pulled eyelid down again. This time drastic fix. Oversized graft, eye sewed shut for a month. Hold lower eyelid where it belongs.

4 days for them to do the job.
I don't envy all your going through, hubby would be more than enough for any let alone what you are fighting too
 
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If hubby is in need of constant baths you may want to consider an on demand water heater that tub will drain your house of hot water for a while until the hot water tank can catch up
 

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If hubby is in need of constant baths you may want to consider an on demand water heater that tub will drain your house of hot water for a while until the hot water tank can catch up
We installed a on demand, propane, heater, years ago. Only run out of hot water if we use up 500 gallons of propane.

Thanks for the advice.

Sales guy said if electric tank we would need 60 gallons at least.
 

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I don't envy all your going through, hubby would be more than enough for any let alone what you are fighting too
Yeah and the fact some crazy person bought a bunch of Yorkies!

I will be a one eyed wonder for a month lol
 
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My brother was officially diagnosed in 2022 but we saw signs that something wasn't right 4 or 5 years earlier. When you finally realize what's going on, the pieces start to fall into place. Personality changes, poor or uncharacteristic decision making, etc. The more classic memory issues didn't start until much later. But looking back there were signs of it in his early 50s. Not an easy way to go, that's for sure. So many years of turmoil. Ugh.

Take care @addy1 - get yourself a pirate eye patch!
 

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My brother was officially diagnosed in 2022 but we saw signs that something wasn't right 4 or 5 years earlier. When you finally realize what's going on, the pieces start to fall into place. Personality changes, poor or uncharacteristic decision making, etc. The more classic memory issues didn't start until much later. But looking back there were signs of it in his early 50s. Not an easy way to go, that's for sure. So many years of turmoil. Ugh.

Take care @addy1 - get yourself a pirate eye patch!
We had honeybees. When you remove hive boxes you always start at the top box, he would go to the bottom box.

He started losing track of what day, what we were doing. . Then drove by a stopped, red lights on , bar out school bus.
As he drove by asked what was he supposed to do. Luckily no harm. Last time I let him drive

Started failing those memory tests the docs give old farts.
Last one taken, total fail, our doc sent us to a neurologist.

He failed that test.

Found out he has genenom e4/e4. Can't take the new slow down med. Also indicator Alzheimer's started in his early 60s

I put myself on the mind diet, very little sugar, no red meats, no alcohol etc. one of us need to be able to think.

It totally sucks, but is what life handed out. He didn't ask for it. I set up a trust to protect him down the road.

Yep get a pirate eye patch! Great idea!
 
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Haha! I thought you meant FOUR DAYS TO WORK ON YOUR FACE! Oh my. But it sounds pretty drastic as it is - you're a trooper.

How's hubby handling the construction? I don't think I've mentioned this on an open thread - my 61 year old brother died last month with Alzheimers. I know any kind of disruption to his day or surroundings was extremely upsetting/disorienting for him.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
 

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