JW, just FYI, stingrays ONLY sting when they are frightened or stepped on. They use it only as a deterrant to a predator. Humans are not considered a predator to them. Steve Irwin got stung if I recall correctly, because he didn't know a huge stingray was buried in the sand, and he stepped on it. They lash their tail up and back at whatever is endangering them, in that case an innocent human. Just like Addy, she stepped on it because she didn't know it was there. They sink into the sand, only their eyes above, to watch for prey, or to hide from predators. They are VERY gentle creatures normally. Swimming in the water table, they are beautiful to watch! I can understand your fear, though. My sister in law and one of their daughters was afraid to let the stingrays touch them, so we gave them all of our attention, and the 2 girls watched from farther away, their safe zone. We were thrilled to get all 8 of the stingrays to ourselves! It was my other niece, nephew, brother and I, so we were enjoying the heck out of the situation, petting and rubbing one then on to the next that swam by. They were searching us for food, obviously, but still enjoyed the gentle touches we gave them as well.
My friend should have known better about them not being dead, but I guess he figured since they get hit by boats all the time (all of the adults had scars of one sort or another from propellers), I guess he thought maybe they were dead. My goodness, there were 4 of them laying on the bottom. LOL He felt pretty stupid when he asked our guide (instead of asking me, cause you know I'm stupid, right?!!) and was laughed at and told they were taking a nap. But, that pup that followed us around, it was really small, and yet was probably as big or bigger than me in comparison to the parents which were maybe 1,000#. I forget the size but they were like walruses. Gentle giants is what they are referred to. Move very slowly, and yes, they are very protected. If you get caught going faster than the speed limit in the area (maybe 15 mph or less), you get a ticket! There was also a roped off area where the manatees could go and not be bothered. Humans were not allowed to go past the ropes. Some were in that area, but most came out to greet us. No one was allowed to feed them, either, so there was really incentive for the manatees, except the human interaction and rubs, which they obviously loved. We were not allowed to "pursue" them either. if they swam away, we had to let them go. That's why it was so much fun to have the littlest guy want to swim WITH us! My smile was plastered on my face, let me tell you! Also, when we were told time to go, there was a manatee that nudged us as each of us got on the ladder. Not sure if it was trying to get us to get out of there, or more likely, trying to convince us to stay longer. It was a wonderful experience, and once I think anyone that loves fish and water would really enjoy.