I will say the run is not only long, but also has up and down, plus a lot of elbows, plus my insistence in using hard 90 pressure elbows instead of the sweeping radius gravity drain elbows, all played a role.
The calculations end up being 11' head, the Sequence pump has a max of 12' head. But then again, the 3600GPH and 12' head are probably "ideal laboratory conditions". If it is pushing the highest flow of 3600GPH, the velocity in the pipe will increase and all these friction losses will also increase. Someone said as the pump gets older, as the water contain more debris like seeds leaves debris it will get worse. I think the conclusion with this is the Sequence pump is marginal for what I need.
As far as relocating the location of the pump, unfortunately that is something that is not easy to do.
Firstly, this was an existing configuration, and it was working at one time, so while it may not be ideal, I know it's not impossible.
Secondly, there has been many considerations given to how the pipe was run. Here is a picture of what I got. Both the intake (red) and return (blue) line hides\ under the bridge. So one consideration was to not have so much white PVC pipe exposed (yes I know I can paint it green and it probably will be covered in algae).
Thirdly, both lines have to be buried six inches below grade because that path will be covered with concrete pavers. The pump is just around the corner of the building, where the roof overhang is wider to protect the pump from being poured onto when raining and also out of the sun.
Fourthly, it was a big chore on my elbows and knees in the crawlspace to run a 30' long cable from the panel to that spot around the corner for a dedicated 120V circuit for this pump. It was using another circuit that was overtaxed with security motion lights, exterior sconces, security cameras, driveway gate motors etc...so I already have water, electric, weather protection around that corner for the pump.
In the event I can't get an external pump to work with what I got, my plan B would be to use a submersible pump under the bridge. I already know the small utility pump can do that with no issue.