Hi Lisa. I agree of course there has to be a middle ground. People need to work and receive income and also we don't want the whole economy to got to pot either from which point it would be either impossible or a long time to recover. My wife and I have been thinking that I could retire soon if I wanted and that's why I mentioned our investments. We would be devastated to lose 30-50% of everything we have saved if the economy took a serious downturn. Then retirement would be off the table for a much longer time. Everyone has an economic stake in this thing as well as concern for safety. I understand that some young people like your niece are suffering too and may be digging an financial hole that will be tough to recover from. I'm sorry for that and hopefully she will get through this okay. I myself suffered a lot when the housing crises happened in 2008-09 and it was very tough to stay positive and come back from that. There was no government assistance for real estate developers and builders and it was an unbelievably tough situation. The only things we received back then were letters from attorneys for banks and investors demanding they get paid. Having lost so much once already already I couldn't bear to see that happen again. I think the thing people may be forgetting is actually how bad Covid 19 was both in Italy and New York. Thank God it wasn't that bad anywhere else in the US, but it could have happened. Maybe some governors overreacted but they tried to error on the side of caution so those situations wouldn't get repeated. From what I understand almost all the States will be starting to open up more within the next week. Hopefully that goes smoothly and things get better for everyone as quickly as possible.I'm sorry for your friends @sissy - there's no question this is a very real virus that is very hard on some people. Who knows why? I was just talking to my husband the other night about the number of related people who we hear react badly to the virus - like your friend and her twin sons which is just too much for any mother to have to bear. I wonder if there's a genetic component to how your body handles getting COVID. Maybe someday, when the dust settles, that will all become clear.
Is it political to say that I'm afraid I may lose my job? Is it political to say I fear that will happen because the governor of my state is a tyrant who is acting in his own self interest and that of his party? Is it political for @CometKeith to say he hopes he doesn't lose his investments? I don't know how you can discuss this issue without discussing the politics behind these decisions that are being made, when ALL the decisions are being made by politicians. We have health people making policy decisions and politicians making health decisions. That’s upside down.
There should be middle ground. There should be those who say "I'll stay home because I can't risk getting this" and those who say "I need to work, I'm ready to go back". But the narratives have become those who want to stay isolated are cry babies and those who want to go to work just want to see more people dead. And they take it a step further and claim "oh you just want to get a hair cut or go out to eat" - not go to work to support your family.
It doesn't have to be either/or. I don't want to see anyone dead - but I also don't want to lose my home that I've worked to pay for for 30 years, my income, my health insurance, my savings, a future for my own kids and grandkids... we aren't going to have a country left if this continues.
And @CometKeith i know you’re suggesting that my niece wasn’t reporting tips, which is common but not true in her case. She worked for a major chain and they are very clear on their reporting rules. People don’t seem to understand that the support systems aren’t working like they normally do. My co-worker has parents who own and drive a cab for a living for 30 years - she drives days, him nights. They raised their family in Chicago driving a cab. They both applied for unemployment and were told their benefit was zero. Nothing. The money just isn’t there.
The breeder likes having names for the pups, she likes to call them by their name the entire time she has them. We named him lil bear. he acts like a tough lil bear when we watch him play with his sister.Never had a yorkie but funny how missy has gotten more grey than the white she was when you first got her .More of her brown has sort of left her also .Be interesting to see what happens with the new puppies colors .Have you picked out a name yet or are you waiting to see what his personality is like to give him a name .
I can totally understand that! Been there done that.We would be devastated to lose 30-50% of everything we have saved if the economy took a serious downturn.
She is the boss............... bosses us around a lot. She has a very strong personality. Will come over stand on my knees and stare over the top of the lappy until I move it so she can lay down. Demands interaction if we are busy and have not paid enough attention to her. on and on she bosses with her eyes , soft barks , her ears say a lot.@addy1 - THAT DOGGY!!!!!!!!!!!
We won't tell!He included the ability to impose fines or jail time for anyone who posts anything on social media that he finds goes counter to anything he determines to be true in his edict. So I may need to start a Go Fund Me to raise bail money here soon.
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