I heard wisteria can rip gutters and siding off of a house, so knew not to place it anywhere near the house. Not sure this will hold it up, but we shall see! I didn't glue the lower sections, so if need by, I will do the cross bracing on the lower sections, too. Just a matter of cutting the side supports shorter and adding fittings. Easy. I glued only the top section, but not the top section to the side posts, just for that reason! I suspect it will need more support, but it's done for now. Won't need it for a few years anyhow.
Rebel, good for your husband! As Sissy says, you can learn by doing. After my divorce, I learned soooo much about my lawn mower! It would not start, was a stupid thing, but since I didn't figure out the "stupid" part of it (I was using the gas lever as the choke and visa versa ... DUH!!!), I learned where the air and fuel filters are, how to check fuel pump, and how to grease the sucker. So, it paid for me to ask questions. I love to learn, just leary to do it the first time on my own.