DouglasHoover
Douglas Hoover
You did't get it water bug- it's called an analogy not a straw man. I read your entire post as a courtesy even though it was extremely critical, after all isn't a forum a place for expression, explanation, debate and opinion and disagreement- thank you for extending the newbee the same courtesy?
You supposedly agree... "This is a public forum, people are free to post whatever they like. Freely offering opinion at dinner parties is a faux pas, in a public forum it is a requirement. It is the entire purpose of public forums."
We should attack the topic or opinion not the person... Often people get angry when their beliefs are challenged because they are unable to differentiate between who they are and their beliefs. A challenge is not a personal attack, it should provide an occasion to prove their own beliefs but since most don’t know why they believew or what they believe they feel uncomfortable. If they don't like an opinion they don't want to debate anymore- they take their ball and bat and go home where it is safe. Come on waterbug, we can't finish the game without the ball and bat.
Ball and bat was an analogy! :banghead3:
:wacko: I tried in several post to simply explain that my dislike for liners was due to the fact that there are thousands more here in southern Cal and in my opinion as many as everywhere else combined- why is everyone defending their beloved liner pond- if it hasn't been comprimised yet, count your blessing, don't attack me and my dislike of liners- there are more example of liner failures here because there are more liners- can we at least agree with that and let me move on to other topics- I'm so sorry if you thought I was attacking your DIY beloved liner pond- I was simple saying if you can afford it, avoid it- relax I'm not going to mention all the reasons why again.
I love this feisty group- at least if a visiter is curious about which pond construction to use they will now see another choice... :heartpump: Peace and joy and happy koi- Dougie
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You supposedly agree... "This is a public forum, people are free to post whatever they like. Freely offering opinion at dinner parties is a faux pas, in a public forum it is a requirement. It is the entire purpose of public forums."
We should attack the topic or opinion not the person... Often people get angry when their beliefs are challenged because they are unable to differentiate between who they are and their beliefs. A challenge is not a personal attack, it should provide an occasion to prove their own beliefs but since most don’t know why they believew or what they believe they feel uncomfortable. If they don't like an opinion they don't want to debate anymore- they take their ball and bat and go home where it is safe. Come on waterbug, we can't finish the game without the ball and bat.
Ball and bat was an analogy! :banghead3:
:wacko: I tried in several post to simply explain that my dislike for liners was due to the fact that there are thousands more here in southern Cal and in my opinion as many as everywhere else combined- why is everyone defending their beloved liner pond- if it hasn't been comprimised yet, count your blessing, don't attack me and my dislike of liners- there are more example of liner failures here because there are more liners- can we at least agree with that and let me move on to other topics- I'm so sorry if you thought I was attacking your DIY beloved liner pond- I was simple saying if you can afford it, avoid it- relax I'm not going to mention all the reasons why again.
I love this feisty group- at least if a visiter is curious about which pond construction to use they will now see another choice... :heartpump: Peace and joy and happy koi- Dougie
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