Always so positive and supportive, I’m hopeful too - probably leads to the anxiety. That and wife of course .This is going to be so pretty! Is there a reason you don't want fish? They don't require much of anything and can really help with the whole nitrogen cycle - which makes for healthy plants. Many of us don't even feed our fish, except now and then for fun. I just mention that in case you think they add a lot of work to pond keeping. Either way - this is a really nice looking pond. I can't wait to see it completed!
And wife is main topic for fish. She was adamant whole time from purchase of the house no fish. She doesn’t eat fish either.
I’m not against fish myself and could do it, but I’m on a few random FB groups and it’s a constant barrage of sickness/leaks/birds/etc. We had two cats and a dog. One cat passed last year and the other just two weeks ago. The last was diabetic. Dog is on antidepressants for anxiety, fish oil, hip pills. Kids. Wife and I talked of the bittersweet of the last cats passing - sad we lost the cat but glad to be free of the obligation as vacations and medications were always a struggle.
Fish would be another responsibility and undertaking I know I personally have no desire to take on at the current moment as I work full time, back in FT college, coach kids stuff, and have a busy body family always out and about. When things slow in 5-10, im sure we can both revisit and do another reno.