So I did the plumbing today.
This circled part is what a relative did for me, now I think this is certainly gonna fail. I glued all the parts together, ball valve elbow etc, and then I did the spaflex hose as well which surprisingly was the easiest part, it fit like a glove and even without glue it seemed hard to pull out.
One will ask why even bother if I think that the teflon threaded part is gonna fail, well I keep being told it's not, but the thing isn't even straight so I am guessing it will. I don't know any better of course, I have no experience with any of this so really trying is the only way I can find out and anyway i've not much to lose here, i have all the time in the world, i can only come out better either way.