OK, so is there anything that can lower the PH (I really don't want to use peat moss, as it makes the water brown ...) and then I could use the oyster shells to hold it there, if I remember correctly ...
Acid lowers pH after it consumes the pH buffer.
Oyster shells are mostly calcium carbonate which has a pH of 9. So in theory it would hold pH at 9. But there's other factors, like whether it's crushed or not, the amount compared to water volume and time. Oyster shells are very slow to raise pH. Here's a study done by a high school kid on
The Potential of Crushed Oyster Shells as pH Buffer that shows in a 3.35 pH acid crushed oyster shells raised pH to 5.63 in 2 hours. The study's numbers for 7 pH water looks screwy, seems to have raised 7 to 9.5 instantly which can't be right. High school kids.
If you scale the amount of crushed oyster shells in the study to pond size...a 1000 gal pond would need 4,175 pounds of crushed oyster shell. That kind of matches what you see in aquarium keepers where they use a huge amount of crushed oyster shells compared to water volume.
Oyster shells are used in high end Koi ponds mainly as bio filter media. They may contribute some pH buffering but it is not relied on because it is so slow. If pH is driven down by rain or bio filtering the oyster shell is slow to react. Rain is a sudden problem because you get a pH swing. But large down pours aren't common. With bio filters there should be some middle pH reached. The level depends on how fast the bio filters are producing acid and how much oyster shell was available.
Baking soda is more commonly used instead of oyster shells for pH buffering because it's instant so pH is more stable. GH is used to hold pH down to 8.3 Baking soda has a max pH of 10 something and so without proper GH pH can drift into 9's with baking soda.
How oyster shell pH effects pH would be a pretty easy experiment to do.
So the bottom line is if you really need pH buffering, because of soft source water or high fish load/ high feeding, oyster shell is not a good choice. With hard source water, light fish load, oyster shell is fine. Oyster shell is also great bio filter media or if you just like the idea of oyster shell.