Here's what I'm thinking for a plan. What do you all think?
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The bog will wrap around 2 sides of the pond, but be lower than the existing flower beds so I don't have to remove the bushes or dig up the utilities there. The wall of the bog that's on the pond side will be lower than the wall on the flowerbed side and I'll stack the rock on a divider wall and foam it in so that I have several small waterfall drops into the pond, almost like water coming through the crenellations on the top of a castle wall.
The pond water level will be 3-4 inches lower than the bog to help with this. The water then flows over the negative edge into a beach area that has a bib liner under most of it so that the kids can play there - might use gravel or decomposed granite that looks and acts like sand but isn't as likely to wash away.
Here's an attempt at a side/elevation drawing:
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The thought was to make it like Brian Helfrich's pond where he used his negative edge vault like a beach for his kids when they were young. until I have young grandkids, we could have it be a "sit with your feet in the water" area or something.
The brown square in the first image would be a buried french drain vault to handle pond overflow. I can't think of another way to do it without potentially flooding the neighbors behind me. I already know i will need to move the sprinkler supply lines that are currently going through where I want the negative edge beach. hopefully I can just tuck them under the cement for the patio.