Gordo; let me add a bit more to what I've learned as I'm currently struggling against this problem as well. What I've learned is that it is best done (the flushing) using TWO pumps; one in the cleanout stack, and one in a large source of water (the pond). I was told; drain (using a pump in the cleanout stack) the bog down to within a foot or so of the bottom, then force (with the other pump) a large VOLUME of water top down into the pea gravel. It's the volume that is your friend. I mistakenly thought I'd succeed with a hose from the house but learned otherwise. I was told to force the water down until the bog is half full or so, then stop the flush, turn on the stack pump, and once again take the level to within a foot or so. Doing this minimizes both time and amount of water you'll use when backflushing. This info is from both Meyer as well as Dave from thePondProfessional.com who really helped initially and now with tweaking what I've created.
Btw, my bog was built as Meyer has stated; large rocks on bottom, smaller next, and pea gravel at the top.
Also, and critically (since I didn't understand well enough in MY bog design originally) the SHAPE of your bog should be like a funnel. This helps direct the backflushed particles TOWARD your distribution pipe, which lays on the bottom (in a trench of its own and it basically below your bog bottom). This distribution pipe ends itself IN your cleanout so when you put a pump there, and with the walls of your bog sloped like a funnel, as you backflush, the clogging moves toward the area you're sucking, and then out with your pump. I was told this might take a few flushes depending on how clogged it is. I got about 3 years out of my bog before issues creeped in and the last two years I had to cut the flow (less/slow) because the water was forcing itself along the bog walls an up the cleanout instead of through the gravel. I felt I had to totally dig the bog out and it was a lot of work. There's a thread I started to share my experience and it's the basis of my idea to make a pre filter (at Meyer's suggestion). I'm fine tuning now and hope to have it up and running in a couple of weeks. My plan is now to flush the bog each fall, after I cut the plantings down since it's the best/easiest time to work on it and it'll be ready then for spring. Should mean NO MORE DIGGING!
At least that's how I understand it and will be doing in the future. In addition to this, and with Meyer's help, I've been playing around with a design for a drum filter which will (hopefully) be a bog prefilter, thus lengthening out my next 'bog cleanout. If this works as hoped, I'll post some pics and maybe it will help others with their design. I'm doing this by incorporating the drum prefiliter into an existing bog system so others can probably retrofit the design too. Just need some room for a large drum filter within your pondscape.
Michael