I LOVE LOVE LOVE getting a pedicure - just went with my girls the other day. I have had a few bad experiences, but once you find a place you love, you will treasure them. I am not a "girly-girl" but I am so hard on my feet that it is almost a necessity for me to go get them pampered every now and then. I've learned to speak up when I don't like something they are doing - it should never hurt.
The salon I go to on a regular basis has a special room for pedicures (so you aren't breathing the fumes from the manicures) with low lights, fireplaces on the wall and a trickling wall of water. The best part is the beautiful signs posted that say "SILENCE". So there's no random chit chat between customers or the techs and no one is babbling on their cell phone with all their friends the whole time they are sitting in the chair. And I've seen them remove clients who don't abide by the request to be quiet, so they take it very seriously! My mom took me to the place she goes and the girls basically screamed at each other in Vietnamese the whole time - not terribly relaxing. At my salon, they turn on the massage chair and I just sit back and relax and enjoy the experience. And a good salon will include a nice foot and leg massage with a standard pedicure, which is wonderful for aching feet!
My girls love to go with me in the midst of gardening season and see the look on the nail tech's face when she sees my "summer time feet". I always have to tell them "these are working feet ladies!". Not only do I spend a lot of time barefoot in the summer, but I do a lot outdoors wearing my garden clogs which don't keep the dirt off my feet. My feet get good and dirty. I of course wash them at home, but there's nothing like a good scrub at the nail salon to get them looking presentable again.
This is a very long way of saying TRY AGAIN GEMMA!