I won't comment on the event that you posted about - as you say, none of us were there so it's impossible to know what we would do in the same circumstances.
Having said that, I only wanted to point out that your original post included the following two statements: "I wanted some input from others" and "Interested to see the feedback to this". I think it's incumbent upon you at that point to be prepared for input and feedback, and to realize that not everyone will be in agreement.
This is a friendly place with lots of kind hearted people who just want to help out. You seem to be the same kind of person, so I hope you can take all the advice and feedback in the spirit it was intended.
Having said that, I only wanted to point out that your original post included the following two statements: "I wanted some input from others" and "Interested to see the feedback to this". I think it's incumbent upon you at that point to be prepared for input and feedback, and to realize that not everyone will be in agreement.
This is a friendly place with lots of kind hearted people who just want to help out. You seem to be the same kind of person, so I hope you can take all the advice and feedback in the spirit it was intended.