The Good Banter Thread

[tbendl]

I'm so sorry Colleen. It sounds like there is some serious mental issue going on with your sister. I hope she gets some help. This can't be easy for you either. Hang in there!

 

[j.w]

It's so sad Colleen. What can you do but be there for her if she ever needs you. I too keep hoping she gets some help. Maybe she needs a welfare checkup from the health dept in case she has mental issues that could harm her health.

 

[koiguy1969]

a communist,
a liberal,
and an illegal alien
walk into a bar.
so the bartender turns,
and say's "Good evening Mr. President".....

 

[koiguy1969]

 

[callingcolleen1]

I cannot force her to go to a doctor, and she has two grown girls who should know better. I have not seen her for a month or so and then it was just at a glance when she was in shopping at the grocery store. I cannot talk to her cause it stresses me out to listen to her crazy talk. Back when I was talking to her this summer, when we thought the baby was coming then, she was all happy and said she was so happy to have a "pure Vegan Baby" and that drove me nuts. I can't stand to listen to her talk about how great her vegan diet it and how I will die horribly from eating meat. Then she is into this "Fairy thing", and we are not talking Fairy Gardens, she really thinks there is fairies and is into magic and stuff. She shops online and gets herself fairy cloths, which are cute I admit. She rejected God in all forms cause the bible gave instructions on how to eat meat and which meat to eat. She thought that was terrible cause in the bible they ate meat, and it did not support her vegan diet. Then she started to say crazy things, like God does not exist and stuff to me and our mother, who is deeply into the Bible. That hurt our mother to hear her talk like that, and I respect our mother and would never say anything bad about her faith, or anybody's faith, cause that is just wrong.
All I can say is God makes babies, and maybe this is a Judgment from God, who she not only turned against, but spoke badly about God. Without God, their would be no babies, and I would not have my little Love Puppy created by Bear, thanks to God!!

 

[callingcolleen1]

And she is getting really big from what I hear, my other vegan sister thinks she is having twins. Twins take nine months too, and not twelve!

 

[j.w]

I keep saying this is sad and it is getting sadder. I just keep hoping she got her dates wrong but how long can this go on? Something is in there even if it's not a baby. Fluid build up, fat or what? Is only her stomach fat and the rest of her body slim?

 

[callingcolleen1]

yes, the whole thing is very sad, and I just wish her children will catch on and get their mother to the hospital. Today at work two other ladies we know came down and asked me about what she had, boy or girl, and I have to sadly tell them no baby, and I do not think there is a baby, and explain what may have gone wrong, and tell them I do not inow for sure cause she won't go to doctor. Very VERY Sad!

 

[addy1]

That is Colleen, so sad

 

[CountryEscape]

She simply is not pregnant, never was, but her body has tricked her mind into thinking there is a baby. The only way to convince her daughters is if you have some type of time-line to show them. If there was a card sent, or something with a date stamp on it, you can prove how long she has been talking about being pregnant, and even if she was not 3 months along, but only 1 at the time she thought she was pregnant, that's still 10 months, and highly unlikely that there is a baby. My guess is that either she has a tumor (not saying cancer, just a tumor which could be fatty tissue or other substances ...) or she just gained weight to support her "pregnancy". She definitely needs help, but if she is unwilling to get it, then so be it. It's her body, and if she wants to continue to talk about a baby, sooner or later everyone around her is going to have the same answer for her ... there is no baby! I also have to ask, and maybe you already said, Colleen, but is she married or does she have a man around that lives with her? I never hear you talk about a man, and find that kind of funny, too. Of course, maybe her vegan diet is what got her pregnant! You just never know ..... ;-) It's very sad, and I feel bad for you, too. Kind of like having a miscarriage, and having to bear the grief that comes with losing a baby, but yet she has never given in to the fact that there never was a baby. Prayers with you and your family ....

 

[callingcolleen1]

Thanks CE, her daughters know how long she has been pregnant and I think the younger one is tired of people wondering, and asking questions. I think they are uneducated as well, cause their mother took them out of school and taught them "all she knows" so that would explain a lot... The older daughter is very much like her mom, and I think she still believes a baby is coming any day now, that is what she tells people. Sooner or later the mom and daughter will have to face the truth, that their perfect vegan diet did not produce a"perfect Pure Vegan baby', and I think that will bother them the most. They are really nuts and really believe all kinds of nutty things, they both drink their "p" and they told me that they don't need to see a dentist cause if they eat a pure vegan diet they will not have any cavities either... not working too good cause their teeth look bad and they have extreme sensitivity to cold, cause I read that certain fruits actually wear your natural enamel down. Younger daughter has big cavity in back teeth that has not fixed itself! They still have full dental coverage under their father's plan I think. Sister has been divorced for years from her girls dad, and her boyfriend no longer see's her and she now hates him. She told me she was happy to have this pure vegan baby all to herself...

 

[callingcolleen1]

AND her friends and other people who know her ask me pretty much almost every day now what is "going on with her"! They come talk with me at work, she is becoming a joke and people tell me she is crazy too.

 

[koiguy1969]

 

[koiguy1969]

 

[mrsclem]

Koiguy- Thanks again for the morning laugh! Hubby and I check this thread every morning for your posts.