we're basically violently agreeing koiguy! LOL!
We are saying the same thing essentially. If she needs to bury the stock tank, it will make it harder to clean. If she puts the pressure filter first, she will then need to clean out the pressure filter more often.
And no one should be fooled into thinking that cleaning a pressure filter is just using a backwash. If you have a pressure filter first, you will need to clean it each week. So, you'd clean it one week by just backwashing--but the following week or two you'd need to do a backwash to clean out the pads, but then you'd also need to crack open that pressure filter and really give it a good scrubbing to make sure all the gunk in it out of the bottom, wipe down the UV bulb (if you have one), rinse the bioballs or whatever filter media is inside. Though pressure filter manufacturers would like to tell you that all you need to do is backwash all season, that is sheer nonsense. Backwashing does get rid of the thick stuff, but it does not rid the filter and media of the finer stuff that inevitably leads to water not being 100% clear.
If you have the stock tank first, then it grabs the big junk before it ever hits your pressure filter. In this manner, you can basically got the entire season without having to touch your pressure filter but once a year since it is only receiving what your barrel misses. When I open my pressure filter midway in the season, it is usually very clean and there's not much for me to do but wipe down my UV bulb.
My layout is my barrel receiving water (via gravity) from the pond, then it heads into my pump, which then pushes it to the pressure filter. The pressure filter keeps up with the flow from the 55gal barrel just fine.
One important note, whether the pressure filter is in front or in back, you need to make sure you are using the largest size hoses that the pressure filter will accomodate. For example, most pressure filters will take 3/4, 1" and 1 1/4" hosing. Make sure to use the 1 1/4" (or whatever the largest size it can handle), so that you get the best water flow. Don't cheap out and use 3/4" hose.