I have a little a dog who is pretty bratty, but, he doesn't damage my yard at all. When we go stay at their place outside Tillamook OR, we take our little dog with us, but when we are in their house I am holding him or he is kennelled and when we are outside he is leashed. I would feel horrible letting my little dog run around and terrorize their place.
I think I am going to be honest with her in a very very nice way
I will really think about how I phrase what I say to encourage her to keep control of her dog but not making it sound like her dog is bad.
My dear sweet husband keeps his mouth shut when it comes to this because if he didn't it might turn out very bad.
He is a retired Gunnery Sgt in the Marine Corps and after doing 26 years in the Corps he has the uncanny ability to "verbally rape" people. He lacks a filter so when it comes to handling things like this he leaves it up to me and my more politically correct way of confronting situations. My sweet retired Marine, he makes me laugh. Some of the vulgarities that come out of his mouth at times are so funny. I don't even know what they mean or where he learned to say such things.