Increased swelling in a short period points to infection imo. Given the amount of distension I don't see how anything would fix this fish.This poor fish is even more swollen today
It's time.and it's a struggle for her to move off the bottom of the pond.
They might not see it as food or aren't so hungry that they'd try something new. If you want them to eat peas in the future train them now.She wouldn't eat any peas, but none of the others would either.
Fish aren't generally interested in food when terrified for their lives which being held by a 1000 ft omnivore can inspire.I gently caught the swollen fish in the net, held her under the surface of the water so she wouldn't be overly traumatized (if that's possible), and put several peas right in front of her lips, but she declined the offer.
Moms...tough as nails. My Mom once, and only once, held a box of kittens to a car exhaust pipe...to be fair I think Dad put her up to it. We were well behaved kids.She gave me a look of horror, but that might have been because she was considering the effort of acquiring the stuff, and then capturing this fish and administering it.
Placing the fish in the freezer is another choice that some people don't consider to be too bad.
There are choices. A little humor in a difficult time. I'm a fisherman and that is how kept fish are often dispatched.My mother's boyfriend is inclined to net it and immediately kill it with a paddle or something. He's tired of the fuss.
Forget the choices...this one's a keeper.he feeds the fish himself every morning and late afternoon, and he buys the food, and he meticulously cleans the pump filter ever week, and cleans the lava rocks, and manages all the pond plants, and does all the other maintenance.
Welcome to pond keeping. To me the world is a pretty cruel place, but that's just the way the world works. We can pretend it isn't, drop out, live in a fantasy world where the chicken in our McNuggets came from chickens who died of natural causes after living a full and rewarding life. Nothing wrong with that. If you prefer that you can put the fish into a nice container and take it you a local pet shop where I assume for a small fee they will do the deed for you. The fish will probably be in a trashcan, still alive, before you close your car door.This is heartbreaking for me. I've become very attached to this fish through these few days of photographing her, finding this website, communicating with all of you, and researching elsewhere about possibilities. How do you make these decisions?
Another way I look at it is this is a Goldfish's lot in life. Thousands of fish were put to death in order for you to have this one pretty fish. If people didn't kill trillions of fish there wouldn't be any Goldfish at all. Is it better they don't exist at all?
It isn't easy. Feeling bad for the fish is OK, it is sad. I've cried, and one deformed fish in particular I still choke up over 15 years later. But it's also the owner's job...that's our lot in life.
Want to create a memorial for this fish...learn everything you can about pond keeping and keep the remaining fish in the best possible conditions. This is one of the things that drives me to learn. If I have to put down a fish I know I did everything I could to make their lives good. Makes it easier imo.