If your cistern is primarily for emergency drinking water, it kind of sounds like your pond is actually drinking your emergency water for you? Are you capturing rain water from your roof or patio?
Well, actually the entire POND is emergency drinking water when you think of it. There's no difference between the water in the pond and the water in the rain exchange, right? So what we actually did was just add space for a potential extra 1000 gallons. If we found ourselves in a predictable emergency situation we could fill everything up - like they recommend you fill your bath tub before a storm.
But yes, there have been summers where we make it many many weeks until we need to add water (cool and rainy) and some where we are topping off every week (hot and dry). We have our sump pump dumping into the rain exchange, but the rub there is when the sump is discharging a lot of extra water SO IS THE SKY!
I do believe the water underground stays cooler in summer and warmer in winter, so bonus points there. We can fill it up before we leave home for an extended period and know we have at least a few weeks of buffer. Plus the pond level NEVER drops - only the underground water gets lower. So lots of good things about it - just not quite as useful is one way we hoped it would be I guess is the message.