I realize we are talking about liner to liner, but I thought I would throw this in since we are talking about adhesives and EPDM. Silicone may work fine for a lap joint with no stress.
When I integrated my EPDM liner to an existing rock waterfall, I had to bond the Liner to the rock face to avoid a leak. My concern was getting a long term bond on something that was verticle, exposed to the sun, running water at 5800 GPM (old sump pump) and would pass a pull test. I knew the liner would be pulling on this long term.
I took some sample EPDM pieces, some rock, then bonded them and left to cure for 24 hours.
When I did the destructive pull test:
Silcone pulled away from the EPDM and remained bonded to the porous rock.
Urethane held with great force and when it did break it actually took part of the shale rock surface with it.
That said, I would use the urethane first having done that test, especially if you have any water features to bond to.
You might have good luck with either.