I hear you NewDay. The fence we have is newer--my neighbor and I built it 10 years ago when my wife and I moved in--the old fence was falling down. So, I know how it was built--each post is 3 ft in concrete.
waterfalls, waterfalls, waterfalls. at this juncture in my limited experience (built one pond and one waterfall a year ago and am now rebuilding the whole thing) waterfalls are an enigma. preserving the water seems fairly straight forward by using liner and placing it correctly. What is tricky is developing and adjusting the proper flow, like you say for your filter, and the sound and appearance you want to create.
in my mind and to my liking I'd use a few really big rocks, I mean 3-4 X 2X 2. But I have no way to move and place them, nor do I have a proper foundation on which to place them. So, I'm going to opt for more smaller rocks of say 1 ft. X 1 ft X 6 inches. Still be really heavy, but much more manageable.
I'm going to try and attach a foto of a waterfall at my work. I love it, but it uses the big rocks.